Around 10 years ago, my wife and I were in Las Vegas for our wedding anniversary, and at some point she suggested that we go to a strip club together. Like any guy, I imagined a number of ways this could go, and my analysis of the situation – my wife was not one to “play games,” so I could safely conclude this was not “a trap” – was that this was a pure upside play. I got to work finding a suitable club for us to attend. It was very exciting!